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In Julyafter struggling with opposite relationship problems fear of commitment vs. Their journey turned into a viral blog that has drawn over 10 million unique visitors since its launch—not just because it was an engrossing romantic dramedy couples therapy! An Experimenthas just been published by Abrams.

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Design caught up with Walsh and Goodman about design as therapy, risk-taking in both work and love, and their hard-won dating wisdom. How has your approach to love, dating, and relationships changed since the experiment? Before the experiment, I was trying to chase love, in a way. I was looking hard Blogs like forty days of dating the right person, which indirectly put way too much pressure on my relationships.

Through the experiment and therapy, I realized I needed to focus on myself and have fun and not take things so seriously. I had a much more carefree attitude, which helped in my dating life. I met the right person afterwards. We met on OkCupid, my first date a month after the experiment ended. The project enabled me to be more honest with myself about wanting to find a relationship with someone worth it, someone great.

Jessie made me realize that. This project took it to a whole new personal level—mashing design with our personal lives. It created a unique storytelling platform. Now Tim and I are working on another project.

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I recently heard a great quote by Lena Dunham. We wanted it to reflect the digital presence we had: In designing the book, our first instincts as designers was to make some big crazy fancy coffee table book with postcard cutouts and perforated pages.

But ultimately, we wanted a lot of people to have access to it.

Aug 2, They both live...

How did your design and illustration work help you process what you were going through emotionally during the experiment? We used design and illustration as a way to process thoughts and feelings. There were moments that were very therapeutic—like on day five, when we drew and wrote things about our exes.